Catherine Haynes, M.S., LMFT
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Recommended Reading

v    Relationships (*especially helpful for couples and user friendly)

 v    *Reconcilable Differences, by Andrew Christensen and Neil Jacobson

 v    *How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About it: Finding Love Beyond Words, by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny

 v    *The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John Gottman

 v    *Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, by John Gottman

 v    16 Ways to Love Your Lover, by Otto Kroeger and Janet M. Theusan

 v    The Five Love Languages:  How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, by Gary Chapman

 v    Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Commitment, by Gay Hendricks and Kathlyn Hendricks

 v    Passionate Marriage, by David Schnarch

 v    After the Fight, by Dan Wile

 v    The Relationship Cure, by John Gottman

 v    The Dance of Anger, by Harriet Goldhor Lerner

 v    The Dance of Intimacy, by Harriet Goldhor Lerner

 

v    Personal Growth and Healing (*especially helpful)

 v *Instinct to Heal: Curing Depression, Anxiety, and Stress Without Drugs and Without Talk Therapy, by David Servan-Schreiber

 v    *The Power of Focusing: A Practical Guide to Emotional Self-Healing, By Ann Weiser Cornell

 v    *The Power of Flow: Practical Ways to Transform Your Life With Meaningful Coincidence, by Charlene Belitz and Meg Lundstrom

 v    *When I Say No I Feel Guilty, by Manual Smith

 v    The Road Less Traveled, by M. Scott Peck

 v    Life Makeovers, by Cheryl Richardson

 v    Legacy of the Heart: The Spiritual Advantages of a Painful Childhood, by W. Muller

 v    *Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

 v    The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity, by Julia Cameron

 v    The Essential Enneagram, by D. Daniels and V. Price

 v    *The Wisdom of the Enneagram, by Riso and Hudson

 v    Dream Work: Techniques for Discovering the Creative Power in Dreams, by Jeremy Taylor

v     Mindfulness and Awareness (*especially helpful)
 v     *Full Catastrophe Living – by Jon Kabat Zinn
 v     *Where Ever You Go, There You are – by Jon Kabat Zinn
   
v     *A Path With Heart – Jack Kornfield
   
v     *Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living, by Pema Chodron (anything by Pema Chodron is worth reading)
   
v     Everyday Zen – Charlotte Joko Beck
   
v     Nothing Special – Charlotte Joko Beck
   
v     The Art of Happiness – Dalai Lama

v    Parenting (*especially helpful)

 v    *Parenting From the Inside Out, by Daniel Siegel and Mary Hartzell

 v   *Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child, by John Gottman, Joan Declaire, and Daniel Goleman

 v   *Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children, by Jean Illsley Clark and Connie Dawson

 v   How to Deal Wit Your Acting-Up Teenager, Robert and Jean Bayard

 v   Parents and Adolescents Living Together: Parts 1 and 2, by Marion Forgatch and Gerald Patterson

 

v    Feeding Your Soul (for Women)

 v     The Comfort Queen’s Guide to Life, The Woman’s Retreat Book, The Woman’s Comfort Book, all by Jennifer Louden

 v     Imagine a Woman in Love With Herself, by Patricia Lynn Reilly

 v     A Woman’s Journey to God, by Joan Borysenko

 v     Apprentice to Power: A Woman’s Awakening, by Jennifer Morse

 v     An Unknown Woman, by Alice Koller

 v     Drinking the Rain, by Alix Kates Shulman

 v     Gift From the Sea, by Anne Morrow Lindbergh

 v     The Woman Who Gave Birth to Her Mother, by Kim Chernin

 

v    Divorce and the Children

 v    Mom’s House, Dad’s House, by Isolina Ricci

 v    The Good Divorce, by Constance Ahrons 

v     Beauty and Poetry

 v     Ten Poems to Change Your Life, by Roger Housden (any of his “Ten Poems” collections are wonderful).

 v     Selected Poems of May Sarton; Hilsinger and Brynes, editors

 v     The Gift – Poems by Hafiz, the Great Sufi Master; Daniel Ladinsky, translator

 v     Cries of the Spirit: A Celebration of Women’s Spirituality, Edited by Marilyn Sewell

 v     The Illuminated Rumi, Coleman Barks and Michael Green

 v     Poetic Medicine: The Healing Art of Poem-Making, by John Fox

 v Finding What You Didn’t Lose: Expressing Your Truth and Creativity Through Poem-Making, by John Fox 

When it’s over I want to say:  All my life I was a bride married to amazement…
I was the bridegroom taking the world into my arms.
Mary Oliver

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